September 2010
1 post
sorry that we haven’t updated in awhile. shit got a little crazy, but we’ll try to update with the current questions this week.
July 2010
4 posts
Anonymous asked: I've known this girl for a while and we've always been pretty good friends. I like her and I think she likes me, but I've always received mixed signals from her, so I'm not really sure where we stand. I've been meaning to ask her out, but I don't want to ruin a perfectly good relationship.
What should I do?
What should I do?
cnk0ne asked: so...i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now (although we've been seeing each other since december.. we weren't 'official' until 3 months ago) and i have to admit that at school it was so much easier for us. i would sleep over at his place and we'd always see each other day and night. but i guess that's what became the problem because once...
Anonymous asked: how do i get my boyfriend to want to be more "adventurous" in bed? our sex is great but its become a bit monotone.
Anonymous asked: I have an amazing boyfriend that I really really love, and I know he loves me back. We are in love. I've been going camping with my friend. And I knew this kid at one of the campsites. He's a senior & I've said like three words to him my entire life. But he had this kid Ryan with him. And Ryan was kinda cute & I enjoyed talking to him & playing baseball with him. I grew...
June 2010
4 posts
eckeau asked: Here's 2 that have nothing to do with one another [I hope anyway :/]
What are your views on religion?
and, have you guys ever played World of Warcraft and what are your thoughts on that?
I figured I'd change it up from all the relationship questions. :)
What are your views on religion?
and, have you guys ever played World of Warcraft and what are your thoughts on that?
I figured I'd change it up from all the relationship questions. :)
Anonymous asked: I'm a college student in a committed relationship, we've been dating almost two years but summertime is a challenge- I live in an entirely unconnected state. Last summer he shelled out the cash to visit me & meet my family. Not often but a few times over that summer he'd call not just to talk but specifically because he missed me or he'd text me something sweet for the same...
Anonymous asked: Many moons ago I was cheating on my boyfriend with a girl that I fell madly for. I can't say that I was in love with her, but we had this miraculous 'side' relationship going for 6 months strong, until I realized that guilt drove me to do the right thing and cut all ties. A year and a half has passed, my boyfriend and I ended up not working out, and she found a new girlfriend. Thing...
Anonymous asked: So, I've been going after this guy for awhile now. We have a lot in common but still very different people. I asked him to my prom, I spent the night at his house. He seemed interested in me and he kissed me when he dropped me off. After that he said he'd call me, and never did. I have a class with him and I'd sit next to him and chat. My last day of school I decided to tell him I...
May 2010
5 posts
Anonymous asked: Okay. Well, I am madly in love with my boyfriend and we've been together for almost a year and a half. But, this relationship wasn't always perfect. We met when I was 16 and he was 24. I told him, "I just want to have fun" and he assumed, fooling around a little, but obviously not getting too close to a minor. Though, oddly my family liked and approved of him.. He was worried...
Anonymous asked: I don't know how to handle this stuff. I'm a huge fan of genevieve's tumblr, and normally I wouldn't do something like this, but I just want an honest opinion from a neutral party. Every guy that I hang out with seems to end up liking me, and recently I just lost two really great friends because 'it's too hard being friends with someone you like'. Honestly, I do...
thisisntliving asked: It seems like you two field a lot of questions day in and out, I wonder if it ever becomes too much? Like, too many other peoples problems when you have your own lives to worry about.
Maybe I'm a self-centered ass though.
Maybe I'm a self-centered ass though.
Anonymous asked: Do you think education level could adversely effect relationship success? More specifically, I have completed graduate school and my beau joined the military a few years after high-school, never going to college, and thus, I have heard mixed comments about men being with 'more educated' women and how that could cause issues. I don't have an issue with it- what is more important is...
Anonymous asked: Okay, so I've liked this guy for a very long time and I finally figured out that he likes me too. We had a really honest conversation where he said he would love to be with me but can't because his religion (Christianity) is so important to him and I'm not Christian. I didn't think this would be an issue but it's something he won't budge on. The problem is that he...
April 2010
15 posts
Anonymous asked: Hi guys, I'm 16. Let me paint a picture of my love life for you.
The first boy that I fell in love with raped me. Then, I find out that another ex is now in jail for attempted murder. Another ex boyfriend of mine just had a baby with a girl he met at a party and randomly boned. Now, you're probably thinking that I just hang around some really douchey guys, but the thing is, they...
The first boy that I fell in love with raped me. Then, I find out that another ex is now in jail for attempted murder. Another ex boyfriend of mine just had a baby with a girl he met at a party and randomly boned. Now, you're probably thinking that I just hang around some really douchey guys, but the thing is, they...
Anonymous asked: I'm a big lesbo and I have a crush on one of my best friends (female friend). The only problem is that she's happily married. The man she married is really wonderful and I enjoy hanging out with the two of them together. I think about my friend almost every day (and sometimes while I'm scraping the cheese off the taco, if you know what I mean!) and I really don't know what to...
Anonymous asked: this is a tough problem but i dont know who else to ask and you two seem like you really have it together... okay here goes... my stepfather used to touch me when i was younger. he started molesting me when i was 13 and i just turned 16. i wont get into the specifics but i dont wish what i went through on any one. i finally got up the courage to tell my mom about it and the day i was going to tell...
Anonymous asked: I'm so lost. I've been with my boyfriend going on five years and we've always had an up and down relationship but it's been smooth sailing as of lately. I love him just as much as I ever have but the problem I'm having is that he's my high school sweetheart and the only serious relationship I've ever been in (I'm young, 21), and we've started mentioning...
hennnypotter asked: you drew faces on your butts. you two are the most perfect pair.
Anonymous asked: I've been dating a guy for four years. We've been great together, had our good times and bad but overall we are still in love. Our time is best spent together just being around one another. Laying on the couch, talking about our common interests, etc.
Here's the situation: he is unreliable as far as jobs and real life goes. He is hardly ever able to keep a job...
Here's the situation: he is unreliable as far as jobs and real life goes. He is hardly ever able to keep a job...
Anonymous asked: I've live with my boyfriend for over a year, we are very committed to each other. Being that the two of you lived together before and are now married, what do you do to keep each other on toes, smiling, etc? This isn't really a problem question, I'm just curious what the 'cute' things you do for each other are and what activities you partake in?
Anonymous asked: Sorry if this goes against the whole idea of the misterandmissus co. But maybe Genevieve will chime in too. Anyway.
Josh, you've mentioned that you've developed severe ADHD over the years. What do you do when you have some task that you absolutely have to do but you can't focus? Do you have any coping mechanisms? (Backstory: I've got some sort of shitty attention...
Josh, you've mentioned that you've developed severe ADHD over the years. What do you do when you have some task that you absolutely have to do but you can't focus? Do you have any coping mechanisms? (Backstory: I've got some sort of shitty attention...
Anonymous asked: Just came across your blog, I like it. It seems helpful and I'd like to ask a question of my own regarding my friend (hehe, doesn't THAT sound convincing) and what I should do about and in regards to her. It's kind of long when I add the backstory, sorry.
So, I didn't know her before college but she was one of the first friends I made after getting here and we got pretty...
So, I didn't know her before college but she was one of the first friends I made after getting here and we got pretty...
Anonymous asked: My heart is a wreck. I fucked up. Again. I liked my best friend, ever since we became best friends. He's 3 years older, we always had a mini attraction, I think that's where a lot of our friendship was. Anyway, we hooked up while he was on leave for the airforce because both of us were single at the time. Kissed in a tree house on new years for 6 and a half hours straight. I thought I...
Anonymous asked: I'm not really mad about this, it's just something that has been on my mind and I don't know how I should feel about it. Wanted your "expert" opinions and such.
When I got together with my boyfriend I told him that I'd been engaged before, he also admitted that he'd been engaged ONCE before as well. (To a black chick, which doesn't mean...
When I got together with my boyfriend I told him that I'd been engaged before, he also admitted that he'd been engaged ONCE before as well. (To a black chick, which doesn't mean...
Anonymous asked: Hey again. This is the same girl that had guy problems and yeah. "why is it that everytime I fall hard for a guy, they end up going out with a total bag of a douche." You probably already recognized the writing style. Lol. *btw, thanks for replying my first post, I didn't think you guys would actually respond. Means a lot. :D Bear with me for I will be typing a lot. You gotta know...
Anonymous asked: Hey guys, I love your blogs and just thought I'd get your opinions on a issue I've been having. A little background info: About a year ago, I met this guy on Myspace, he was a guy that went to the same school as my best friend. We started talking for about 7 months when we met up for the first time, at Knott's for my school's Sadie Hawkins dance. We liked each other and he...
Anonymous asked: I'm crushing hard on a guy in my class, what do I do about it?
Also I'm sorry for the long question.
I had a class with him last year, and thought he was cute. But I was way too shy to talk him, and so I forgot about him. But when I saw him again a few months ago in my new class and thought I recognized him, I didn't make the same mistake twice. So now in class we have...
Also I'm sorry for the long question.
I had a class with him last year, and thought he was cute. But I was way too shy to talk him, and so I forgot about him. But when I saw him again a few months ago in my new class and thought I recognized him, I didn't make the same mistake twice. So now in class we have...
Anonymous asked: I'm pretty hung up on a guy friend right now. We haven't been friends for long, but somehow seem to always make time for each other. From always getting together when we're home to talking at least once a week, it really seems like there are sparks. Problem is, we live in two different cities for most of the year because of Uni. I'm going to see him in a week when we're...
March 2010
35 posts
Anonymous asked: Hi guys, hope all is good. This one is a little long, so bear with...I'm currently in my second year of college, and I moved away from my hometown for it. I left behind some good friends, and one of them in particular has always been touch and go when it comes to keeping in contact. I try my hardest to let her know when I'm back for the holidays, inviting her to come up and visit and I...
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend is probably considered an extremely good boyfriend. He doesn't talk to any girl but me, he'd drop anything to come see me, he spoils me like crazy, he calls me every night, he always wants to hang out or talk, he never gets mad at me, etc. There's just one problem and it's basically all me. I can't stand how nice he is. I don't know what to do anymore. I...
Anonymous asked: Hey, I just found your page through a friend's link. Now, I've got a question in need of an opinion. SO, love has been going REALLY suckish for me; everytime I fall in love so hard and think the guy likes me back AND I think things are gonna go well... they end up falling in love with someone else and that girl, happens to be one of the few people I strongly dislike. I don't get why...
Anonymous asked: So, my boyfriend and I are completely in love and great for each other. We don't argue, we have fun, and we both think we have a future together. The problem is, I often fake orgasms during sex. I didn't start doing it consciously, I think I just wanted to make him feel like he was doing a good job. He can be insecure about things like that.
It isn't like he...
It isn't like he...
Anonymous asked: I found out that my fiance is cheating on me. She claimed to be going out with her friends or that she had to work late hours, and I know how cliche that is, which is how I found out. She got several phone calls late at night when we were at home together and she sent all of them to her voice mail. When I asked her who was calling so late, she said that she did not know the number. I thought that...
Anonymous asked: I'm pretty sure that I gave my girl friend genital warts. She had to go out of the country for a month for work and while she was gone I hooked up with a friend of mine. I know I got bad karma from that because I guess my friend wasn't clean or something. I mean I didn't see warts on her or anything but I have them now and I didn't have them before. Anyways so my chick gets...
Anonymous asked: Have you dealt with jealousy in your relationship? If so, how did you deal with it? My situation is that this chick who used to like my boyfriend is always talking to him and trying to get him to hang out with her. He's told her he's not interested, and I'm not worried that he will cheat on me... but he still talks to her. He and I have talked so he knows how I feel. I just...
Anonymous asked: Not really a question just had to thank you guys.
Im the girl who couldnt meet anyone of similiar faith and/or interests. Well... I used that meetup site thingy...
I've never even heard of it till you mentioned it! I've met some really cool people! Takes us a while to meet up cause everyone's schedules a bit hectic right now, but at least now we know...
Im the girl who couldnt meet anyone of similiar faith and/or interests. Well... I used that meetup site thingy...
I've never even heard of it till you mentioned it! I've met some really cool people! Takes us a while to meet up cause everyone's schedules a bit hectic right now, but at least now we know...
Anonymous asked: I remember HMWT talking about comics on his old blog and I was wondering if you could tell me what would be a good one to check out? I read Watchmen when the movie came out but I didn't like it that much. I guess I'm not into super heros or whatever but there was one you talked about that sounded cool. I guess anything you wanna throw my way I'll go check out!
Anonymous asked: so i'm a huge believer in soul mates, and i feel like i've found mine (although i'm only 20, and could potentially explore the world) but this friend of mine whose been my best friend for years just feels like shes the person i want to spend the rest of my life with. we never really had anything romantic between us, although we'd always watch movies in her bed, she'd get...
Anonymous asked: Genevieve, you are so pretty (not to be a creeper or anything) and I was wondering what you do to make your skin so clear and pale? I have problem skin and it get's really dry but it's also kind of oily too. Would either of you suggest any good skin care regiments?
Anonymous asked: To the girl whose bf broke via email: I feel for you. My ex did the same thing. Dont worry, it could be he just wasnt spiritually ready for you yet, the Fates will take care of you! Anyways, that brings me to my question. Im very much what people would call 'new age'. You ever watched the show 'Friends'? Im Phoebe. =P
Well, being of a different cut then most, people seem...
Well, being of a different cut then most, people seem...
iksentrik asked: So I just moved interstate for uni, I left my mum who I'm very close to and my boyfriend at home (we're, so far, working at the long distance). Uni obviously is overwhelming, not having a job or social life or even friends i can chil with sucks. But my problem is that i seem to be getting upset over eeeeeeverything. It's a build up of all these things i haven't dealt with like...
markley asked: What do you guys think has more bang for it's buck: FFXIII or Borderlands? Both would be for the 360, and I do have Xbox live. Also note I only have three months to enjoy either, due to my impending ship date.
Anonymous asked: Okay, so this is kind of weird and random but it's been on my mind lately and I would appreciate input. I have a friend who isn't the most financially stable and loves animals. Which is fine. But she keeps getting more pets. She just gave away her sugar gliders because they weren't getting the attention they needed, but today she just got a lizard of some sort. And pretty soon...
Anonymous asked: (*Feels really weird but needs this*) So I 'dated' this guy a while back. Everything seemed to be going fine, sex was meh at most but I understood that it's been a while for him and you know, he needed to get back to his groove. (*He's Straightedge*) Anyways, then all of a sudden he stops all communication. The last thing he says is something along the lines of '-maybe...
Anonymous asked: I'm dating a great guy. On paper, he's everything I've wanted... or, at least that I thought I wanted. In the past few weeks, his "like" for me has grown exponentially, while my admiration for him has decreased - drastically. I need to break up with him. I like him, but not in that way anymore. We've been going out for a few months, but nothing substantial. Is it...
Anonymous asked: This may sound creepy or weird, but your relationship seems so ideal and I would love if you could help me obtain what you two have... I'm recently out of college and realized that I am basically in love with my best friend (she is a girl, I'm a boy). We became friends at the end of our Sophomore year and things have been great ever since. We have both dated other people since knowing...
Anonymous asked: Advice on how to be awesome. Also what should a person clueless as to what constitues "good music" look into.
Anonymous asked: Things you've read / seen / watched that made you feel that something's in the world going right or at least made you feel all gooey inside.
On hindsight, this question may be easier for Genevieve than for Josh. Heh.
On hindsight, this question may be easier for Genevieve than for Josh. Heh.
Anonymous asked: so, how would you suggest convincing your bisexual "not boyfriend" to have anal sex with you... when i flat out asked him he seemed pretty excited about it, but then concluded he didn't want to be my "first". uh, sorry dude, there is nothing "sentimental" about taking my anal sex virginity. i wasn't sentimental about normal sex virginity, why the fuck would...