Anonymous asked: So, I've been going after this guy for awhile now. We have a lot in common but still very different people. I asked him to my prom, I spent the night at his house. He seemed interested in me and he kissed me when he dropped me off. After that he said he'd call me, and never did. I have a class with him and I'd sit next to him and chat. My last day of school I decided to tell him I liked him and he had said he liked me also.My friends tell me he's just shy but I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from him. He said he'd call me so we could hang out this summer. I have a feeling he won't. What should I do? sorry this is really stupid high school crap.
He said: I would just relax. You could be coming on strong. Just remember that it isn’t the end of the world if nothing happens.
She said: High school “crap” helps you prepare for “real life” crap, so I wouldn’t exactly call it stupid. Maybe your guy friend is shy or maybe he isn’t interested… If you’re not willing to put yourself out there, you might never find out. Okay, so maybe he’s not going to call you. Who says you can’t call first? If you really want to be with this guy, make a move. The worst that happens is that he tells you he isn’t interested, you get over it, and you move on to your next high school romance. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
