Anonymous asked: Many moons ago I was cheating on my boyfriend with a girl that I fell madly for. I can't say that I was in love with her, but we had this miraculous 'side' relationship going for 6 months strong, until I realized that guilt drove me to do the right thing and cut all ties. A year and a half has passed, my boyfriend and I ended up not working out, and she found a new girlfriend. Thing is, her and I have been reaquainted and it seems as if we've switched places. I can't even begin the explain our fucking chemistry. It's like she's the night sky and my stars shine bright against her complexion. We're seriously meant to be, and she feels the same way. Yin and yang. Milk and cereal. Zan Efron to 10 year old girls. It's LIKE THAT. If we're so entwined into each other, then how come she's so reserved to be with me? She's not even with her girlfriend anymore.
I just want us to thrive and live freely as we should, give ourselves that chance I didn't take a year and a half ago. Doesn't she?
He said: She’s probably reserved about it because you have already demonstrated that you have questionable decision making skills and aren’t very trustworthy. Lucky for you time tends to heal wounds.
She said: You hurt her feelings and broke her trust when you called it off to be with your dude, so of course she’s not going to give you her heart 100% just because your other relationship went south. To her, she was just a side dish and your boyfriend was the main course. Put yourself in her position and recognize how shitty that feels. She’s going to need time to trust you, and if you want to be with her, you need to prove that you’re never going to leave her again. She might never fully trust you, so be prepared for that. Hell, she might even leave you for someone else. Don’t just tell her that you want her, show her that you want her. Then cross your fingers and hope for the best.
